Dirty talk – Playboy Dating and Sex
It’s good to talk. It’s even better to talk dirty. A well-timed, well-aimed bit of smut whispered in your dear heart’s ear can have explosive results; a sure way to spice up the evening’s entertainment. Get your timing wrong though, or overdo the rude stuff, and you could easily end up getting thumped for your troubles (or, even worse, see your intended collapse in a fit of uncontrollable giggles). No point in getting all crude and lewd if the recipient of your passionate wordplay is busy changing the cat litter tray.
So what are the golden rules of getting good and grubby, the do’s and don’ts of dirt? The big no-no seems to be talking dirty simply because it’s something that you think you should be doing, rather than because you actually want to; it’s only going to work if it sounds hot-blooded and genuine (even better if it sounds impulsive and is all totally unexpected). Equally, do make sure first that your partner’s happy with a little bit of muck every now and again; there’s no easy way around this one, you just have to come right out and ask her (maybe over a bottle or two of wine). Certainly sex education expert Dr Petra Boynton cautions against just rushing in and swearing a lot: “The major mistake men make here is to read somewhere that talking dirty is something all women like and assuming it’s a turn on for all women. And then to just start saying rude stuff.”
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